We also should not extrapolate from Jesus’ words a prohibition against self-defense or protection of loved ones. As we have seen, certain situations require appropriate intervention, and abuse is certainly one of them. . I can forgive someone, but I cannot possibly have a meaningful relationship with that person. It is true that you may very well never be able to have a restored relationship; there are no guarantees. However, one thing that will forever ensure a permanent break is your unilateral